In Japan, the customer is not king

October 14th, 2010By Category: Work Tips

In Japan, “The customer is God” is a common customer service phrase drilled into waiters and waitresses and presented in just about every training session given to a new employee. On the surface, this seems to result in great customer service that is the talking point of many a tourist who visits the country. However, as a long-term foreign resident in Japan, I have been frustrated time and again by Japanese service, and now find it hard to believe that Japan will ever be a world-leading customer service nation.

Don’t get me wrong; Japanese customer service is good, and more than anything, it is unbelievably consistent. Complete standardization of service brings about the utter perfection with which food is prepared here in Japan. You almost never see a wilting leaf of lettuce, or a poorly prepared meal. You can go to just about any run-of-the-mill restaurant in Japan and never walk out disappointed with the food you were served. I love it. Japan is one of the best all-around places to eat good food. In the U.S., where I grew up, and in just about all of the nearly 50 countries that I have traveled to in my life, it is no surprise when you visit an unknown restaurant, and leave disappointed with the food. In Japan, I have rarely been surprised.

But once you have lived in this country for an extended period of time, you realize that Japan is not really the Mecca of customer service at all. Japanese customer service has been standardized to the point of feeling soulless at times. The flawless execution of the product part of the service delivery is usually at the expense of any room to maneuver outside the instruction manual, any real warmth on the part of the person serving you and thus, a somewhat hollow customer experience.

How many times have you sat down and asked for some small deviation from the set menu, only to be told: “Sorry, we can’t do that,” when in reality it is a simple and easy to fulfill request?

A common scenario occurs when ordering a beer with a small amount of foam or head (“awa sukuname”), a common request of foreigners especially when you are paying up to 1,000 yen a beer, and the waiter brings you a perfectly half-filled glass. While unbelievable in any Western country, in Japan, when you ask for anything that requires even the smallest exception to the standard service, more often than not, you will hear either “Sorry, we can’t do that,” or you get exactly what you asked for (a glass of beer without foam, but only half full).

A case in point: My wife and I had lunch at a local burger shop in Shinjuku recently. My wife, who is Japanese, asked for an iced tea without ice, and was promptly served a literally half-full glass of Oolong tea. We looked at each other and could not help but laugh, as we had just happened to be talking about these kind of service situations. This situation seems ridiculous when you think about the tea bag which makes a liter or two of Oolong tea for the cost of a few yen.

Another illustration is McDonald’s in Japan, and if you’ve eaten at McDonald’s in Japan, you probably know where I am heading with this. In my particular case, I like to order a side of BBQ sauce with my fries, and even better, I have a personal favorite custom of putting BBQ sauce on my cheeseburger to make a very tasty BBQ cheeseburger. It can be insanely frustrating when asking for as simple a thing as a small packet of BBQ sauce, and even being willing to pay for it, only to be told: “No, sorry, we can’t do that.” I broke down in frustration at the Shinbamba station McDonald’s near Shinagawa a few years back and said “Fine, give me chicken McNuggets, and hold the nuggets,” and paid 249 yen for two BBQ sauce packets. I have not been back to McDonald’s in Japan since.

I don’t blame the server or the person at the cash register for the inflexibility. They are just following the manual which is incredibly rigid and allows for little or no bending of the rules. There is never any intention of malice or annoyance. And there is never any lack of politeness or friendliness on the part of Japanese service staff. Staff are generally friendly but I find it is a false or insincere friendliness that is obviously right out of line 34 of the training manual. You can often see the catalogue smile on the clerk’s face wane if you ask for anything remotely out of the ordinary. Back home, friendliness is by no means guaranteed when you walk into a shop or restaurant but when you do find it, it tends to be genuine and sincere. The one place in Japan that I have consistently found that kind of warm, deep down friendliness from the serving staff is at Starbucks.

There are many more cases of efficient but inflexible customer service I have experienced myself or heard about from other foreigners. The phenomenon exists across multiple industries and sectors: banking, cell phone shops, the city hall, hospitals, or retail institutions such as clothing stores or electronic stores. Even hotels, the epitome of service in many other countries, can generate intense frustration here in Japan. The complaints that I hear nearly always relate to the complete inflexibility and unwillingness to adjust to an individual customer’s incredibly small and usually quite reasonable needs. This often has us walking out the door vowing that we will never return. This is where the expression “Okyakusan wa Kamisama” or “The customer is God” falls flat on its face.

So where did the soul in Japanese customer service go? It seems that service in Japan has been shaped by a manufacturing mentality that forgets there is a human being at the end of the service, with individual preferences. There appears to be an overwhelming need to prioritize the process over the experience.

If I were to try to define “customer service” in its most simple form, I would say that it is “Adjusting to the individual customer needs in advance of them even asking, whenever possible, and creating the best possible experience for that particular customer.” Winning the heart and loyalty of a customer by going the extra mile when you don’t have to is the hallmark of great customer service companies.

The common (Japanese) man or woman on the street generally accepts the way things are delivered in their vanilla form. This is a country where, more often than not, the nail that stands up gets hammered right back down, so the pressure to change is still very relatively small. Unfortunately, because of this lack of impetus to change, Japan has done and will continue to do badly in the international service market.

Why is it important for Japanese service organizations to compete internationally? Well, it would certainly give the economy a kick-start. According to Wikipedia, agriculture makes up 4%, industry 32%, and services a whopping 64% of global GDP. Can you name one Japanese company that has succeeded in a pure services industry, on any major scale, outside of Japan? Take a look at CNN’s list of the world’s top 500 companies by size. Japan has 71 companies on the list, but not one is an international services company. There are a few domestic Japanese services companies, but the bulk of the Japanese companies on the list are manufacturing and industrial.

To compete internationally, Japanese service companies need to shift focus to the individual customer experience as the “product” They need to understand customer needs and train staff to be flexible in meeting these needs. And, in reality, training alone is not enough. Only staff who are happy and motivated in their jobs will truly go out of their way to give a great customer experience. The “Customer comes second” mantra of renowned CEO Hal Rosenbluth is at the heart of obtaining great customer service through looking after the people that work for you.

Japanese service production and process is world-leading, and I would say that Japan possesses about 80-90% of what it needs to be the best customer service country in the World. The remaining 10-20% encompasses individual customer needs being accommodated and a bit of genuine care for the customer. If companies here achieved that last 10-20%, they would push global standards for customer service to new highs and put Japan and Japanese service on the map. Without it, Japan will continue to lag behind other nations, and remain the world’s most powerful economy without a service sector leading company on the global stage.

Photo Credit: Corpse Reviver / Wikimedia

Author of this article

Dean Rogers

Dean Rogers owns and operates 10 language schools under the brands Dean Morgan, SALA, and Hummingbird in Tokyo and Osaka. He is also the author of the best-selling book 残念な人の英語勉強法, available on Amazon.co.jp.

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  • Hanato3

    its a fact that the service in japan its great maybe we are use to the occidental service where we spend all the resources and dont even matter, one point it is true, the japanese follow the book all the time, all the time is by the book and thats because they dont want any trouble because the managment say “do it by the book” about the mcdonalds yeah i went piss off too they are mean. i still thinking that the costumer its god in japan by their way but maybe our occidental conception of that its only different

  • Anonymous

    The only way for Japanese company to change is from the top down. If the boss of Macdonalds Japan says employers need to flexible in dealing with custromers, then it will filter down the ranks.

  • guest

    Yes back home you have sincere and genuine service but you have to tip to get that. So do you think it is still sincere?

  • fortcher

    Service in Japan is fantastic and world-leading and you have just become complacent and take it for granted. Go back to the US, or even worse, Australia (no tipping system) and get your heart broken repeatedly when the moron employee says “whaddya want?” and “I hate my job” or “I’m leaving next week, I’m getting five bucks an hour more at my new job and I can’t wait for my last day”. That thing has happened to me in Australia on multiple occasions and is just pathetic and unacceptable.

    AT LEAST in Japan they “pretend” to be nice. That is still considered “effort” whether you can see it for its manufactured superficiality or not. Cuisine in Japan and the consistency and extreme amount of choice on offer is just unbelievably good as you say. So if you can’t manage to find a cheeseburger with bbq sauce somewhere else in Tokyo rather than expecting a worldwide chain to accommodate your personal niggling request, then you are too hard to please. Where does a large chain draw the line? What if someone wants bbq and tomato sauce? What if someone wants to change the bun to wholemeal? You see, they have a streamlined menu for a reason and that way they can work more efficiently and keep the place running smoothly – people go there because the food is “fast” not personalised. It’s not some tiny little craftsmen restaurant that specialises in hand-crafted burgers.

    I get your point, I see the same thing often and it is a little weird when they can’t accommodate tiny diversions, but honestly, their offerings and service are so good to begin with that you can’t expect every single little thing that your mind comes up with to be accommodated. Every time I’ve had fellow countrymen from the west come visit me over here, I have been amazed at how difficult they are to please. Oh can I get my sugar as organic, oh can I can roman lettuce instead of normal lettuce etc. Just eat it you whingers and soak up the wonderful customer service heaven that Japan is.

    I would take Japanese “superficial” customer service any day over “honest/genuine/rude/in-your-face/i-hate-my-job-and-i-have-no-limits-so-ill-tell-that-to-the-customer” service in the Western world. Western people have no limits, no boundaries, no structure and no organisation. It’s such a free for all that there are no rules and it virtually becomes a random chaotic anarchy. Good service, bad service, it all depends on the moron you get and what kind of drugs he took the night before and how much of a come-down he’s currently going through doesn’t it. Screw that.

    If too many westerners like yourself insist on forcing Japan to change, you will soon enough end up with what you want, which is an exact duplicate of your home country. Ahh now remember why you left and how nice it is to arrive in Japan each time?

    Don’t take “superficial” Japan for granted.

  • Some White Guy

    Spot on!
    Your point about McDonald’s used to happen to me every time I’d go to KFC. I order a huge box of chicken strips, but they are shocked and amazed when I ask for more than 1 packet of ketchup. I even offer to pay for it, which they laugh off and tell me “Nono, don’t pay for ketchup, silly! Ketchup is free!” I then often say, “So will you give me some?” “No.”

    Once, there was a manager that got involved with my crazy request and since then, it’s actually gone smoothly at my nearby branch.

    Great article.

  • guest

    True, but the wage of service staff here is like 800 yen an hour compared with the $5.25 more or less minimum like that back home. You have the option of not tipping if the service is bad. In Japan they get paid their 800 yen an hour despite whether they did a good job or not.

  • whatever

    I think that it’s easy to fall for for the superficial ‘friendliness’ of foreign oriented cosmopolitan chains like Starbucks in Japan when you are unable to understand the way that sincerity is expressed in Japan. As for someone working in the service industry here, I suggest you try somewhere other than McDonalds (though they do have some very warm, friendly staff, especially among the elderly they employ).

  • Matteo Harrod

    Hmmm This seems like an interesting article. I see both positive and negative perspectives in the articles above however, I think its a bit rash to include every one as a whole to discriminate against. For example, yeah its true that the west has a lot of lame workers that hate their jobs and take no pride in what they do or have any respect for the company or its customers. I have seen this kind of attitude more commonly then then average which leads me to wonder why western mentality falls to such a low stature. I would have to say the culture is to blame for that reason and the lack of intelligence is also another factor. Now compared to Japan and other wonderful places through out the other surrounding Asian countries have been extremely impressive. I mean when I was living in Manila Philippines, every time I would walk into a McDonalds i would be nearly attacked with a numerous amount of, Hi sir! Welcome Sir! Thank you for choosing Mcdonalds sir! Extreme pride and energy were used for ensure the customer complete satisfaction. Even when I was in Tokyo for a short time I was pleased by the effort that was given and compared to other places they are dominate in pleaseing their customers. It truely makes a difference when the workers approach you with a certain respect and kindness and really strives to meet you needs. Just being in that presence is worth more then the money you are spending so if i cant aquire extra condiments then I guess i would just have to respect the fact that there is a limit due to extreme customer volume and remain delighted for such fine service.

  • Robert Takeuchi

    I have to admit that I see your point here. Especially coming from a background in Guest Services back in Canada.

    However, I’ve especially taken notice when places have actually gone “above and beyond”. One such place was the Holiday Inn in Nagano-Shi. I’ve also came across genuine customer service at the Coldstone Ice cream place in both Saitama and Tsukuba. But it is hard not to notice that these places are western companies.

  • bikertom

    I both agree and disagree, the inflexibility can be frustrating, but the level of politeness is amazing. I am constantly annoyed when I return to the US, customer service is frequently terrible (or worse just sufficient enough to get an average tip), though extremely flexible. I would rather put up with a rigid menu, then snotty service (that I have to tip).

  • TheMuss

    As an Australian I can’t believe the service here, I often feel embarrassed at just how nice they are.

    Maybe that will wear off one day, but I am sure I’ll never be pining for Aussie customer service!

  • Apugsley16

    YES YES YES

    thank you so much for writing this article. Now I feel less crazy for feeling so frustrated all the time.

    I think the point that many of the disagreeing people may not see is that this only becomes an issue when you are here for an extended period of time – as you said in the article. In reality, most of the things that frustrate people (me?) come from very very minor things that really aren’t important at the end of the day. However, the fact that little things cannot be done for you, despite the quality, slowly reveals the true nature of the service – if not the culture. After time, this wears you, and/or your opinion of the service industry down.

    Coming from a country (Canada) that has great service, and coming from a person who has worked in that industry for 6 years, doing every job from the bottom to the top, I can say that Japan is way behind. I wouldn’t even put them in the 80-90% range.

    Yes, as people have noted, we have the tipping system to encourage good service, but this is not the only reason for the difference. If tipping were the only reason, people would find the exact lack of soul in N.A. that can be found in Japan. We would be just as robotic, responding to the customers’ needs perfectly in order to get the right tip. But (north) western service is not like that. It is genuine. At times, it may be a genuine piece of crap, but genuine none-the-less. So there is more to it than just the tipping. I have served numerous Japanese tables at the restaurant I worked at in Canada, knowing very well I would not be tipped, and I gave them the exact service I would to any other tipping table.

    On a final note, even if it were just the tipping system in Japan that was lacking, look at all the people above who were willing to PAY for free condiments. People are willing to pay for flexibility.

    I’m sure this isn’t just a western mentality. I have met many a Japanese who disagree with this too, but as you said, they just accept it.
    Thanks for an awesome article

  • Guest

    So your the guy who holds up the line at some pub whining about the head of foam on his beer! FYI, it’s served like that in many countries! Many beer glasses have a little line near the top indicating where the liquid stops and the foam begins. It’s a standard pour. It’s similar to when you hold the ice at fast food restaurants. They just click a button and that’s what you get. As far as the service goes in Japan, it’s light years ahead of most places.

  • Bgazeley

    Thank God for Japan. Against all odds it has managed to keep many of it’s own traditional ways including it’s unique approach to service. Who in their right mind wants to see Japan as a clone of the “in your face ” Western ways. The general service levels (however contrived they may seem) are a constant delight — accept the difference and wallow in it. The more you can speak Japanese the more you will enjoy talking to the service staff and gaining the warmth behind the smile often getting the extra bbq sauce packet —- simply added in as ” service “

  • SP

    This is the best article I have seen on this webpage.

  • AstroboyJapan

    Regarding Mc donalds in Japan, same thing happen to me, when I order one piece of burger (bacon and cheese), I ask for some ketchup,they told me that ketchup is only given to those who ordered french fries!what a bummer!

  • Invademyspace2000

    In case you didn’t notice, the cost of living is higher in Japan too. Besides with tips, the staff back home could probably pull in more than 800yen an hour. So your point unfortunately is a bit dumb.

  • Tsilavo2

    Like you said, the absence of flexibility, the fake smile, etc… are nothing but the practical aspect of the way employees respect to the letter the rules imposed by their employers. Been there, done that. Still doing that, by the way. lol

  • Truthseeker_rry

    I understand the author’s feeling on the soulessness of some of the customer service. I am living in Japan, and have been for a while. There are some places where the workers treat you great, but when you have been around for a while, you really can tell who is being genuine and who is doing it with no soul. I have been to places where the person serving you won’t even look at you (this is common at the grocery store). I have worked in customer services before and know that in America you are not guaranteed the greatest friendly service but you are always to make eye contact with the person you deal with. At the grocery store close to where I am living, some of the cashiers avoid looking at the people they are dealing with, always looking downward or away even when it comes time for the money exchange. It actually feels more unpleasent dealing with someone who won’t even look at you and giving you the souless response than dealing with someone who does look at you with a souless response. At times I thought that it was just happening to me because perhaps the server did not like a foreignor there. But I saw that it was happening even to the natives. These ones who don’t even look at you usually don’t even talk very loud. It is almost like they mumble, like they express more displeasure being there than I have seen in the average American servers who are unhappy about their jobs.
    I can accept the limited services because I try to be flexible and don’t need so much anyway, but the soulessness that comes from many service people can really dampen the experience. From what I have learned in my experience of serving people, the ones who serve are the ones who actually set the atmosphere of the place. Poor servers create a poor feeling in the atmosphere.

  • ex-restaurant manager

    This article is ridiculous.. just another whiny rant from somebody who has either been in Japan too long or not long enough but in either case understands little of the place they are in mostly due to their own selfishness and small-mindedness.

    Look at what everyone (who is complaining) is whining about: not getting extra bbq sauce or ketchup or some other condiment! How stupid and selfish it is to complain about such things, when meanwhile you are getting superior service and quality for the main thing you came for! Unbelievable! “I got great service, and the food was wonderful, but I couldn’t get the condiment I wanted, so therefore, the service here sucks.”

    Another great part:

    “And there is never any lack of politeness or friendliness on the part of Japanese service staff. Staff are generally friendly but I find it is a false or insincere friendliness that is obviously right out of line 34 of the training manual.”

    Oh, sure, and that waiter or waitress that sucks up to you in Canada or the US is not after a big tip, right? Wake up. Don’t leave a tip, try to engage that person in conversation, and see how long that friendly attitude lasts.

    It goes on:

    “A common scenario occurs when ordering a beer with a small amount of foam or head (“awa sukuname”), a common request of foreigners especially when you are paying up to 1,000 yen a beer, and the waiter brings you a perfectly half-filled glass. While unbelievable in any Western country, in Japan, when you ask for anything that requires even the smallest exception to the standard service, more often than not, you will hear either “Sorry, we can’t do that,” or you get exactly what you asked for (a glass of beer without foam, but only half full).”

    So why should you get a deal, a discount? That is what you are asking for, isn’t it? You want a full glass of whatever at a cheaper price, and you’re upset that you can’t get it. Grow up. I used to be a restaurant manager in Canada, and I often would run into your type in high season – usually tourists (think about that for awhile) – who would try to game my menu or a promotion that I ran. They would LOUDLY complain like overgrown children if they didn’t get what they wanted, and with me, they never did. Funnily enough, the locals would usually applaud me for standing strong.

    By the way, I wonder how you approached the Japanese staff when you wanted something extra (or any staff of any nationality, for that matter). Were you polite, or did you just ask for what you wanted in a blunt or dry way, forgetting that what you were asking for is still a favor? Yes, the service industry is about service, but what you need to understand is that if you go around expecting your demands to be met without any consideration of what you are asking for or who you are asking, it is YOU who is without soul, because YOU are not treating the person who you are dealing with as a human. YOU are the one is treating the whole scenario as a “manufacturing process.”

    Everything is interconnected, Sparky. You treat the server/cashier poorly or as if they were just an extension of the table they stand in front of, and I guarantee you that you consistently will not have great service.

  • Michael

    The people saying that he’s just whinging just don’t get it. Picking on his examples in fast food restaurants is missing the point. It’s the principle we’re discussing here, and it applies to much more than their restaurants.

    Japan will never rise again purely because of this problem. They’ve been reliant on their manufacturing engine for years, and now with China taking that role in the world, they have to become an internationally focused service economy – something they’ve been failing at miserably for decades. Other countries have made this transition, but Japan simply can’t.

  • Realpooey

    I think people are missing the point here.

    I doubt any westerner comes to Japan and fails to notice the exceptional customer service, but, it is often times absurdly inflexible. The examples given in the article are just that examples and none of them are over the top demands, just simple things that elsewhere would not be a problem.

    The author is just pointing out that the lack of autonomy of staff members creates these weird situations. I’ve had the same thing happen to me, I was in a restaurant that served burgers I ordered a burger which had a sauce that sounded really tasty and I said to the waiter please may I have it with cheese? To which he said, but, it does not come with cheese. I explained that I understood that but I would really appreciate it if they could put a slice of cheese in it for me. I told him I was happy to pay for the cheese and he said the problem wasn’t the money but the fact that the item is not on the menu… What followed was a 10 minute wait while the waiter went to the kitchen, came out and spoke to what looked like a manager, who then went into a back room somewhere came back out, went to the kitchen and then went back to my waiter. The waiter then returned to my table and said yes no problem we can add cheese to the burger for you.

    I found it all very funny! In London our customer service is god damn awful, but, you can still order a big mac with no cheese or lettuce or with no sauce.

    What people need to remember is the main difference between customer service in Japan and in the west is that in the west there is no rigid set structure which every employee must follow. On one hand it allows staff to be autonomous and think for themselves on the other hand that coupled with long dismissal procedures mean our customer service experiences are often lacking. Customer service in Japan is so good because staff have a very strict rule book which they follow to the T (when I first arrived here and spoke NO Japanese after a month I could navigate Convenience stores and fast food joints with ease. This is because no matter which branch I go to and no matter who serves me I know all of the questions they will ask me and I know in which order they will come. No variation!) which means they provide us with great service, but, when it comes to making a decision they are at sea.

    Also for the record, I don’t know about anyone else’s reasons but I ask for no head on my beer because I don’t enjoy drinking through the bubbles. Plain and simple, it’s nothing to do with cheating my way to more beer. If I pay for a pint I expect a pint, no more and no less.

  • Xoimsn

    Man, you eat McDonald’s. You can be taken in serious. McDonald’s is the poorest food in the world. You should be worried about your health, not about service. When I was a McDonald’s user, I ate in many countries. The service is the worst everywhere. They are not kind in Britain or Portugal. Neither in South America or Southeast Asia. It is just standard service. (Not in Europe. There is bad service!) In my country, they cannot do any adds to the plates al all. The manual is the manual. I think is too late to you to return to your homeland. Your mother must be worried about you not eating Mc Donald’s and being mistreat by Japanese people.

  • thegaijin

    I have come across this issue many times. Japanese culture is about respect and not free thinking. You would need to start western customer service training from birth. That’s just the way it is, don’t question it! The customer is not god, their boss is god! employee’s seem to have little power in japan and are afraid to do wrong.

  • Dario

    It’s nice to have fairly consistent professional service, but when you need a bit more, the inflexibility and robot-behavior becomes problematic. In the US, I generally received more memorable favorable customer service than disappointing. It’s the feeling that the person I’m dealing with is sometimes talking to me as a person, not out of a routine script. It’s also odd seeing the exact same cashiers over and over and them never breaking from script with a personal touch. It’s the same experience you got from the first time, even 2 years later. I disagree that Japanese staff don’t express their personal frustrations with their job. They do, just not in a direct way (you know, as a person talking to a person off script would do). You get the soulless (as mentioned before), direct, cold routine. The words may be polite, but the body language says they hate the job or you or who knows what. You have no idea what it is, except that they’re not enjoying their work.

  • Good_happy_boy

    Service is much better than other countries,you are treated with a well deserve respect as a costumer who pays for a service.
    That doesn’t mean that the costumer is ‘God’ is obviously metaphorical.

  • Dahlia

    I understand where you’re coming from in terms of Japanese people not willing to go outside of their comfort zone for that extra mile of service.

    However, you have to understand where they’re coming from as well. A good example of letting “little things go by” would be tattoos in an onsen environment. Some onsen ban all tattoos as they are often associated with yakuza and they wish to discourage them from showing up at their doorstep. Say a foreigner has a cute little butterfly tattoo, obviously not linked to the yakuza, but the moment that they hear that the onsen has let someone with a tattoo into their place, trouble will be on the horizon. Why are they letting other people with tattoos and not them? That’s unfair.

    It would be the same for customer service. If you start by making little demands like ketchup packets and bbq sauce, other customers may take cue that they too are allowed to change the menu. A hamburger with no salad, freshly squeezed orange juice but with no pulp. When the establishment can’t meet the demands of a fussy client, that’s when trouble starts. Why allow people to get their ketchup packets, yet can’t serve a hamburger without salad? It’s the little things that can snowball into bigger things, and I think that’s where the Japanese can forsee trouble. Stop the trouble from the start and you will not have bigger trouble. It’s a simple formula.

    If you come across superior service, then great! Always a added bonus, but to want to change the entire service industry by giving privilege to some clients and not others seems pretty unfair. Be happy with what you get, if you’re not, then just go somewhere else.

  • bobandco123

    “fortcher”, I could not agree more with you. Thank you for expressing it so well. I’ve lived in UK, Italy, France, Japan, Singapore and Hong Kong. I was 5 years in Japan and I’ve left twice, for different reasons. Only now, after more than 10 years of traveling, I can see the light. After having lived with the Chinese greed, the Italian disorganization, and whatever other great things you find ‘out there’, I can appreciate what I had in Japan. Japan is by no means perfect but for me one things bets them all: “in Japan I’m left to leave in peace”. In every other country, for one reason or another, there’s also a ‘fellow’ citizen out there ready to ruin my day. And why? because unlike Japan, they are selfish f**ks. Only thinking about what’s good for them. Yes, maybe so much individuality spurs a lot of creativity; but some of the characteristics that make Japan such a unique place is the cohesion of society, the avoidance of confrontation, the lack of “I’m going to do whatever it pleases me!” attitude.
    Note: I used to complain about Tokyo as well, exactly like the author. Then I lived with the Chinese, and my views changed. Come to HK for a taste of it. Or go to Europe instead, maybe in Paris, to experience their ‘friendly’ service. Or maybe the great artistic streets of Italy with pavements plastered by dog excrement.
    Unfortunately we often realize what we’ve lost when it’s too late. I’ll come back to Tokyo soon. I hope I’m going to be wiser this time.

  • Miguelitos91

    I just had the same thing happen to me at McDonalds this weekend. Man, I was so upset. I ordered some new fried chicken thing, and got rejected. I lost it an went off on the tencho.

  • Otto

    I wouldn’t say there is no tipping system in Australia. I don’t know what part of Australia you’re from, but in Sydney you pretty much look like a cheapskate if you don’t tip if you’ve received good service in most restaurants. If you receive bad service you shouldn’t have any qualms about walking out without tipping.

  • Otto

    I was back in Australia last year for the first time in about three years. I actually had a cashier in a Target return my credit card by throwing it onto the counter – and she was actually kind of friendly – she just had absolutely no idea.

  • http://pulse.yahoo.com/_FLQIKAUGW4RPDEMQIAUMBOCROA Dave

    I think the author is right in some ways though nitpicking about the lack of bbq sauce is pretty trivial in my opinion. Back in the 80′s they used to give out an assortment of condiments at McDonalds for free but due to the recession they stopped giving them out and they will only offer you ketchup with your fries if you ask for it specifically.
    I do agree though about the Japanese being unable to do something that is out of the norm because they are too bound by the rules and traditions and that is something that they really do need to work on if they want to pull the country out of the financial doldrums.
    As far as most customer service goes however if you have a legitimate complaint most corporations will go way out of their way to avoid “claims” as if a company receives a complaint that is the worst thing that could happen to them and they avoid it at all costs.

  • rika

    I understand how you feel and what you would like to say.
    I am a Japanese who has a special need kid and live in uk with a English husband.
    My son doesn’t eat ice cream but he likes corns. When we went to the Tokyo disneyland we ordered 3 ice icream for us(me, husband, older son) and i asked nicely that we could have a just corn since my other son doesn’t eat ice cream.
    The Japanese girl said that she could not.
    she told us that we still have to pay 300 yen for just a corn. she also said it is rule.
    We thought what unflexible service was.
    In uk McDonald, when we explained thatt ur other son doesn’t eat ice cream but he likes corn.
    The man in the shop kindly gave us a corn for free.
    I still think customer services in Japan is best in the world, but they have to learn about real kind services.
    So I really understand what you said here.

    (Sorry, my English is not perfect.)

  • Juancolopon

     jeezz man, i’ve been living in China for 6 years, and chinese are just the worst of them all, greedy, rude and nasty, i traveled to Japan 2 times before, and i love the service, is just perfet, i will actually start living in Japan next year. But really, i think this guy doesn’t really know what is bad service, he should come to China, Japan is just perfect!

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